Borrowing Rituals From Other Cultures

Is it appropriate, or appropriation?

Clients ask me all the time, “Is it OK to borrow death rituals from cultures or religions to which I don't belong?” The short answer is yes.

In an increasingly globalized world, our lives interconnect in unimaginable ways. As a result, we learn from and appreciate the diverse traditions that enrich our global community. One area where this cultural exchange often occurs is in the realm of rituals surrounding death and dying.

While some may view adopting these practices as appropriation, I believe that respectfully incorporating them provides solace during times of need.

You don’t have to be Irish to want a wake. Taking a week to mourn a loved one benefits many families, not just Jewish ones. It's acceptable and even beneficial to “borrow” from other rituals when seeking comfort.

Looking Outside Our Own Culture or Tradition

Grief is a universal human experience. Regardless of our cultural or religious backgrounds, we all face the pain of dying or losing loved ones. My clients often need rit…