Reducing Death Anxiety: Psychedelics Can Help
Psychedelics, including various kinds of plant medicine, can help people overcome their fear of death.
If you don't feel inclined to meditate or try breathwork, but feel an overwhelming anxiety around dying, don't despair. Many of my clients feel the same way. And they don’t have time for talk therapy at the end of their lives.
Psychedelics have helped them.
“I’m not a religious person…or anything near spiritual either, but I felt like I’d experienced…the feeling of an afterlife, like a preview almost, and I felt totally calm, totally relaxed, totally at peace.”
“I have the sense that death is not the end but part of a process, a way of moving into a different sphere, a different way of being.”
These are just two of many accounts from patients who participated in psychedelic studies conducted at schools such as Stanford, Johns Hopkins, and NYU.
These studies show that one dose of psilocybin—the active compound found in “magic” mushrooms—drastically reduced overwhelming sadness and anxiety in patients with terminal illnesses.
Many current studies also show the same results with LSD, DMT, and other psychedelics.
My Personal Experience
As a death doula, my job is to support clients at the end of their lives. One of the many services I provide is trip sitting. In the name of harm reduction, I’m available to sit with someone tripping in a therapeutic session for up to twelve hours.
This is in partnership with my client’s licensed mental health counselor, and we work together to plan the journey and then integrate what was learned.
I don’t source the plant medicine or interfere with the trip itself. Instead, I sit with the client and occasionally provide water or a guided walk to the bathroom. I help them feel safe.
I've been trained by The Zendo Project and am the lead educator and a board member at End of Life Psychedelic Care, a nonprofit dedicated to this pioneering profession. I've also experienced the power of plant medicine firsthand.
Unfortunately, psychedelics, for the most part, are still illegal in some areas of the United States. Activists like me continue working hard in states and cities to change that.
In Chicago, I partner with a Buddhist psychedelic group and the Illinois Psychedelic Society. I encourage you to get involved in your own community as well. In the meantime, there are many retreats, churches, and other legal ways to access this important medicine.
Dying – The Singular Universal Experience
Death is an inevitable and natural part of life. No matter our gender, economic status, or culture – every single one of us is going to die. And yet, as a society, we hardly discuss it.
On the contrary, we distract ourselves and deny, deny, deny. The medical community also makes it worse. Dr. Kerr, a hospice physician, has said that if death makes you uncomfortable, the best place for you to go is medical school.
There they see death as the ultimate failure.
This results in a population of people scared to death about death.
Psychedelics Help Reduce Fears
In one study, 80 participants with terminal diagnoses took psilocybin in a carefully monitored setting. After counseling, more than three-quarters said they felt major relief from depression and anxiety. Those improved feelings were still felt six months after the studies were complete.
This is unprecedented. More studies confirm similar results.
Psychedelics help with the fear of death by opening people up to the mysteries surrounding us. The psilocybin experience is an especially profound one, revealing to people an awareness of sorts, especially those who are dying.
Many lose whatever fear or trepidation they feel. This not only provides comfort for the person dying but for their loved ones as well.
Combined with integration, and sometimes a meditative practice, psilocybin has been shown to increase feelings of gratitude, compassion, and forgiveness. A common theme among psychedelic users is that we’re all connected. They feel an overpowering love.
Your Favorite Song
Words sometimes feel woefully ineffective to explain a psychedelic experience. For the uninitiated, I use an analogy to try to convey what this awareness feels like.
Think about your favorite song. If you have one, you can easily recall the title and artist, right? Thinking of the song puts a smile on your face.
Now think about when you walk into a room or you’re driving down the road and that song comes on the radio. It’s different when you hear it, right?
You feel something come over you.
You turn it up. Close your eyes. Feel aglow with memories.
Maybe you even dance a little.
This is how a good trip works sometimes. Psychedelics take certain ideas we know (love is all that matters, we are all interconnected, death is not an end, etc.) and convert them into something we also feel. Revelations we now understand on a much deeper level.
Imagine the Possibilities
When we are dying, we lose our sense of self. If this has never happened to you before, the idea of such an ego death can be frightening. It can lead to depression and existential angst.
With the right set and setting, psychedelics can give people a new perspective. They feel the death or disillusion of their ego and recognize it as awe-inspiring.
Psychedelics show us that we can enjoy this mystical experience. When we come back from the trip, we integrate what we’ve learned into our daily lives and live out our remaining days with less fear.
After a trip, many people report feeling deeply positive, freed from time and space, and unified with all living things. A renewed sense of purpose and meaning comes over them.
“People in the psychedelic trip often experience being at one with the world or even the universe. It’s as if they have died or have gone out to another place. They exist beyond their body. That experience can give them a sense of perpetuity, of permanence, of being part of the cycle of life, which of course we all are,” said Professor David Nutt.
Difficult Trips Aren't Always Bad Trips
Not every trip is pleasant. I encourage my clients to trust themselves, let go, and be open. Only when we turn and face our fears can we sometimes conquer them.
Throughout our lives, we have many uncomfortable, difficult experiences that become transcendent. This includes giving birth, running a marathon, lucid dreaming, climbing a mountain, etc.
Psychedelics can be similar - we sometimes purge (vomit or diarrhea) and experience deep discomfort before making meaning of it.
We must also acknowledge that psychedelics aren't for everyone. If someone is so inclined, but cannot explore plant medicine for a variety of reasons, I often recommend therapy, breathwork, and meditation.
Studies show that results can be similar and meditation/breathwork brains especially look similar to brains during psychedelic trips.
With meditation, breathwork, traditional therapy, or therapy accelerated with the help of psychedelics, people can learn to:
Approach the end of life with peace, awe, and wonder.
Enjoy their final days in a supportive, caring environment.
Explore the dying process without fear or anxiety.
Find ways to celebrate their lives.
It just takes some determination, patience, and work.
A Path to Peace
There are many retreats to help those looking to shed their conditioned fear of the unknown. I'm professionally connected to one, Diaspora Psychedelic Society in Jamaica, but there are plenty all over the world. Including some retreats in the United States.
Through sacred medicine connection and integration, participants experience skillfully facilitated psilocybin and psychedelic experiences rooted in indigenous, scientific, and esoteric wisdom.
You can also join death doulas like me for workshops about the dying experience. I’ve created sessions where we explore ways to broaden our understanding and come to see death as a joyful transition.
Either way, I encourage those with death anxiety to revisit their views, learn about options, and feel empowered to die a good death. Without fear. Surrounded by positive support.
Contact me at Anitya Doula Services today for more information.