Writing a Eulogy

Celebrate the individual and comfort grieving loved ones.

A eulogy is a written tribute usually delivered at funerals or memorial services. It honors the life of someone who has passed away. Friends, family members, or other individuals close to the deceased share memories and reflections about the person's life.

Not every death doula writes eulogies. But since I come at this work with over fifteen years of experience writing columns for a variety of newspapers and magazines, people often hire me to write these statements of praise.

It’s one of my favorite ways to serve others.

Eulogies vary widely in tone and content, depending on cultural, religious, and personal preferences. Some of my eulogies humorously recount my client’s achievements and contributions. Others may emphasize more solemn narratives and the qualities that made someone unique.

My primary goal is to provide a meaningful homage capturing the essence of the remembered person.

Who Delivers a Eulogy?

Celebrants, family members, or someone with a connection to the deceased usually del…